Baby is one year old and still wear diapers. Will it be bad for his growth and development?”
“Is bed-wetting caused by wearing diapers for too long?”
In order to save trouble, some parents will let their children wear diaper until they are 3 or 4 years old; some other parents will start to control their children’s urination and defecation from the moment they are born in order to save money. In fact, both of these practices are wrong.
Putting diapers on children is not to make adults have less trouble
Diapers can indeed reduce the burden of parenting while at the same time reducing the disturbance to babies. We advocate letting the baby wean themselves off diapers naturally.
But as children grow up, the necessity of diapers will gradually decrease, and their shortcomings will gradually become apparent.
If you just want to save trouble and convenience, your child will become overly dependent on diapers. If your baby is older and still needs to wear diaper all day, he or she may learn to hold back urine later than babies who don’t use diaper, making it easier for them to wet the bed.
There is a baby in the community who is almost 6 years old and still wets the bed. The parents think it is troublesome to get up at night, so they always put diapers on the child when he sleeps, which ensures that the child will not wake up all night. The bad thing is that in the long run, when the child grows up, he cannot build up a good nerve reflex to urinate at night, so he can’t wake up, so it is easy to understand why he wets the bed.
So, if you find that your baby still wets the bed frequently after the age of 5, you should think about whether you have been using diapers for too long. Your baby has developed a habit of urinating whenever he wants, and his bladder has no chance to exercise, so he cannot control his bowels and bladder.
Don’t let potty training harm your child!
It is of no benefit to children to control their diapers and defecation too early.
Not only is it bad for their spine and sphincter , it is also not conducive to cultivating their sense of privacy.
Consider the following example:
Jenny, an 18-month-old baby, sometimes had rectal prolapse after defecation. Since the initial prolapse was not serious, his family members were able to help him recover every time.
However, the situation became more and more serious. The latest time, the prolapsed rectum was as big as an egg. The child cried so hard that he couldn’t even stand up. The reason was that Huihui’s grandmother had been holding him to pee since he was born.
Rather than “training” children to urinate and defecate on their own, it is better to wait for them to feel uncomfortable after urinating and defecating. Parents want their children to learn to urinate and defecate on their own as soon as possible, but often work hard and fail to achieve the expected results. If you emphasize it too early, it is easy to cause children to resist it, and the result is often counterproductive.
Children usually feel uncomfortable urinating or defecating in diapers when they are 2 to 2.5 years old, and will give their parents accurate signals before defecating. At this time, parents only need to take advantage of the situation and take their children to sit on the toilet, so that the children can form a relationship between defecation and the toilet, and they will soon establish normal bowel habits.
Four myths about diapers
Will wearing diaper cause bow legs?
In fact, the legs of newborn babies will be slightly bent. As long as the hip, knee and ankle joints are in a straight line, it is normal. They will naturally straighten as the baby grows up.
Do diapers affect fertility?
Diapers do not have an airtight film layer, so the heat can be dissipated, unless they are not changed for too long!
Do diapers affect the ability to use the toilet independently?
You can’t rush your baby’s toilet training. Studies have shown that children who learn to use the toilet before 18 months of age usually don’t fully master the skills until they are 4 years old. In contrast, children who start training around the age of 2 only need 1 year to be able to use the toilet independently. The average age of completion of training is around 2 and a half years old.
Do diapers cause your child’s red butt?
The main causes of diaper rash are: excessive moisture, friction, abrasions, soaking in urine and feces for too long, yeast infection , bacterial infection, diaper material allergy, etc. Only in very rare cases is the red bottom allergic to diapers, because different manufacturers may use different moisture-absorbing ingredients and surface materials in diapers.
How old should babies wear diapers?
Research by the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that a child’s excretion control muscles generally mature between 12 and 24 months, with an average age of 18 months.
